EM’s Exploration of Kink – Fisting Day Special

~Fisting~

Yes, I’ve skipped a few letters, with good reason, it’s October 21st, National Fisting Day. I recently caught the Word Ejaculation post discussing Courtney Trouble’s desire to have fisting allowed in porn and I agree with Ruby’s comments regarding the porn industry…

So, I’m going to squeeze a little one in for National Fisting day too…

Fisting: When one person puts their hand entirely inside another person’s vagina or anal passage.

I’ve written Erotica including the act of fisting, Hitch was one of those times when I had to step outside the box (no pun intended) and write outside the spectrum of my own personal experience because of  what the character demand.

Like so many women I am a huge fan of the finger fuck, 2 sometimes 3, perhaps 4… all moving, squirming and placing pressure inside my pussy, it’s like a symphony of pleasure, throw in a slippy thumb up the back passage and that’s me away… Easily pleased by a skilled lover I am.

Mr Beam does have extraordinarily large hands though, he’s 6ft 4 and well proportioned all around and although I’m not a small woman; I have narrow hips.  Thoughts of child birth and a head getting stuck in the birth canal, forceps…  Moving on. Being fisted is something I would dearly love to try!

I’ve seen a few brief scenes in the *odd fetish film (just a few 😉 )where some one gets fisted, it’s usually only a short piece and with little finess, so I’d like to see it being performed properly, from the start, with passion… I’d call that fascinating viewing!  So what if it would take a while, with lots of lube and anticipation, I can see me squirming in my seat watching (in a good way) and as a woman who CAN’T seem to find the right sort of porn for me, (please do make suggestions on the porn front dear readers) I do wonder if the fact I’m salivating at the idea of watching a slow, seductive, lovingly executed fisting might be an indication of desire!

In fact, dear movie makers, I know I’m not the only female who finds your offerings pathetic, I’d much rather see real people fucking, with glistening hot bodies from sheer exhiliration,  instead of those bloody terrible camera simpering, lime light hogging, seemingly perfected bodied women you seem to get in porn films. The eye rolling, pouting and stupid noises they do wants me to chuck my dildos at the TV and shout “Grunt and Sweat for Fucksakes!”

So I say Bravo! to Courtney and friends for drawing this to our attention! I shall be keeping an eye on the Tumblr and hope you include me in your list of supporters.

Posted on October 21, 2011, in Exploration of Kink and tagged , , . Bookmark the permalink. 9 Comments.

  1. Now how do I put this. The idea of performing this act is intense. Half of me is thinking Wow, what an idea, the other is sacred of breaking anything. Plus searching for fisting videos pretty much brings up 1980’s German Porn.

    As for the size issue. Yes us men have large hands, real men anyway. So it does not surprise me when again, in porn, it’s a girl on girl or self fist fetish.

  2. Great post, although I have experienced this. The idea of trying it with someone new scares me. I gave up on going alphabetically in my exploration of the list. Just because my mind is all over the place. Today will be fisting as well 😉
    I’ve never actually looked for it in porn though.

  3. fisting seems really really really scary

  4. My lover loves it and I love pleasing her. I am 6’4′ with big hands. Its not the size that matters ( Ya right all the ladies say) but how much both partners TRUST and love 1 another!!! Some women love it and some FREAK RIGHT OUT!!!
    Thanks for all the good reads!!!

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