Wax on, Wax off…

Yesterday I hand another of those “Why the HELL am I doing this again?” Experiences. Lying on the couch at the beauticians, she spreads hot wax on my mound of venus and other slightly more intimate parts then yanks it off… and I try not to scream… Well, not so much these days because it is getting easier, apart from the nusance of the ingrowing hairs! TMI? Okay… moving swiftly on.

Someone asked me  “You and Mr.Beam must be getting on great if you are having a wax?” Hmmm. Interesting question. Yes, Mr.Beam and I are getting on really well at the moment and long may that last but that is not why I get a wax.  I do it because for 2 or 3 weeks it feels so good… all silky smooth and soft to touch. It’s as much as I can do to drag my fingers away from my pussy! Of course, he’s a fan too, I hesitate to say it but if it were just for him, I’d not go through all that, perhaps just a tidy up around the edges.

I used to just have the Bikini wax, usually just if we were heading off on holiday somewhere, even if it was to go skiing, my idea of apres Ski is a bottle or two of ice cold beer consumed whilst in an outdoor hot tub. One prefers not to worry about escaping hairs in that situation. As time has gone on though, I’ve become accustomed to seeing pictures of vaginas without hair, the porn industry is responsible for a lot more metal conditioning then just bukkake… So I tend to go these days with a landing strip, I might be inclined to have it all off but (as I often say) I’m a Mummy before so many things these days and it just doesn’t seem right to me as the adult female in the house, not to have some pubic hair.

This time I was toying with a triangle or even a heart shape, I’m sure that would make him chuckle but something stopped me… Not embarrassment that is for sure, after all I just had a woman touching the entire outer pussy area, she is so very thorough sometimes I wonder as she runs her fingers over my skin.  The wax is so wonderfully warm too, perhaps it’s the pain that stops it being a turn on, because it’s not the right kind of pain for me, it just hurts like fuck. The result is so smooth and sexy though I can’t wait to offer myself up for face time.

So, really, selfishly, this is for me, I do it purely for personal reasons, it makes me feel comfortable and sexy.  If anyone else gets to enjoy it too, that is just a fringe benefit 😉

It got me wondering as I was lying there, what do other people do to themselves for themselves to make them feel sexy?



Posted on December 7, 2011, in Blog and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 9 Comments.

  1. Ooh, I’d love to answer your question in the form of a blog post, If I may?

  2. What a well written, from the heart insight into the mind of a woman that fully enjoys her feminine sexuality. We are sexual creatures and your thoughts reveal the type of healthy attitude toward our natures that men and women should all embrace.

  3. I don’t know if I do anything.

  4. Well, I haven’t stepped up to the waxing, but I do shave. I tried it for myself when I started cycling and I like it better. There is no man in the picture at the moment. So yes I do it for me. Other sexy things, my nipple jewelry, or my ben wah balls that I do for me and nobody else. 🙂

  5. Interesting post, believe it or not we had a lengthy conversation about this last night before Christmas dinner. It actually prompted my brother to stop what he was doing in the kitchen and come into the living room to say, “I can’t believe grandma, my mom, sister and wife are talking about waxing your pussy’s at Christmas dinner” (not that we were going to wax our pussy”s at Christmas dinner) you know what I mean.

    Anyway, for years I have shaved and left a landing strip, I trim the remaining hair really short. I have on occasion shaved myself clean but growing it back is a bitch with ingrown hairs and all. I have been single and celibate for over a year and still shave every day or 2nd day. I do it for me and if I am with a man I think he must appreciate it. I also wear sexy lingerie because I like the way it makes me feel. I don’t own granny panties and if I don’t want panty lines, I don’t wear panties.

    My brother said if you want to really make a guy happy Brazilian is the way to go but I am 53, is there an age when that is no longer true? I mean is an old pussy as attractive naked as a younger pussy?

    I just popped in to say welcome to my blog because I saw you subscribed and saw this post.

    I’ll be back.

    • I don’t think it’s an age thing, if your partner finds you sexy and enjoys a Brazilian then that would work for him no matter what your age is. There are still plenty of men out there who enjoy pubic hair.

      Generally speaking being happy with yourself is a good place to start and it sounds like you have found that. 😀

  6. I admire women who are willing to endure the pain for the brazilian. I don’t wax anything and sometimes I feel so unsexy. I just hate the pain, so I avoid it all together. I stick with plucking and shaving – so much more work. To feel sexy I love perfume and lingerie. Yeah, a bit old fashioned, but none the less they make me feel desirous.

    • Perfume and lingerie are fabulous, smelling good is very sexy and the feel of silky fabric on my skin really works for me…

      Waxing does get less painful if you do it regularly and the re growth is less thick.

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